Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Way Back When-esday: Eggs-haustion

Dateline: Easter Sunday 2007
Twins' Age: 5 Years Old

After the egg hunt. Before the church service. The eggs-essive candy consumption crash.

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Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Stone Soup and the Second-Grade Psychiatrist

Each year, our church celebrates Palm Sunday with a post-service "Stone Soup" luncheon...with donations collected to benefit our local Meals on Wheels. As an explanatory tradition, the preceding Children's Moment features a reading aloud of the traditional Stone Soup story.

You know the tale. Three hungry, traveling soldiers seek sustenance in an unwilling-to-share village. The inventive nomads then declare they'll simply boil up some "Stone Soup," setting up a water-filled cauldron in the common square, adding mere stones. In the particular version read Sunday, the pot stirrers managed to wheedle the vegetable, meat, barley and milk contributions from a reticent citizenry with such leading strategic observations as:

"If only only we had a carrot, it'd add so much flavor..."

"A potato would go well with the stones and the carrots..."

"Wouldn't a bit of beef make this splendid?"

"A cup of milk would make this broth rich enough for the king himself!"

As you'd predict, one by one, the townspeople trot off to fetch their singular ingredients. The collective giving creates a communal feast. Symbolic indeed, until analyzed by our own youthful Jung over our Sunday night dinner....

Sarah: "Those soldiers were too passive aggressive. They should have just asked for carrots if that's what they wanted."

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Monday, March 29, 2010

Makes My Monday: Perfect Paella & Fantastic Friends

One of my bestest gal-pals from college, Mrs. M also happens to be an amazing, amazing cook. When we told the kids she'd be coming down from Northern Virginia not only for a Palm Sunday visit, but to make us a meal, the culinary countdown began.

The supper was sensational, many memories made. As she was leaving, she passed a package to Scott and me...with the words that our good friends in the DC area wished they were closer---particularly now----and off she drove. The love of long-time friends Makes My Monday.


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Saturday, March 27, 2010

Saturday Snapshot: Sunshine and Cereal

Winter's snows were wonderful, but the sunlight streaming in over this morning's breakfast table seems a perfect portent of the seasons ahead.

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Thursday, March 25, 2010

Just Like Heaven

Our intuitive, much loved children's minister has graciously created weekly "Children's Bulletins"---making the occasionally lofty Sunday morning subject matter more accessible to developing spiritual minds. This past week, our service was an interpretation of Faure's Requiem---in fond remembrance of those who've passed in the year past. Heady content, even for adults. During the hour, I glanced down at Darren's program, where he was furiously writing a response to the prompt "What Do You Think Heaven Looks Like?" His interpretation moved quickly from the superficial to the sublime.

Transcribed: "The streets are paved with gold. Everyone is friends. Everyone has a home. Everyone has what they need and want. It has everlasting peace."

To his wisdom and succinct insight, superceding my own, I say a heartfelt "Amen."

Also reminiscent of heaven for our family today? A clean set of CT scans for Double Daddy...his first since the recurrence in November. Next on deck, a proactive course of radiation. Again, I say, Amen!

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Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Way Back When-esday: Lap-Time Literature

Dateline: May 2003
Twins' Age: 20 months
Daddy's Age: 35 years

Reading has always been such an integral facet of our lives with Darren and Sarah. Images like this one...taken because my mind's eye might blur with time...continue to charm me. Keeping with a theme, comment today and be entered to win a copy of Helen Coronato's wonderful Reading with Your Child. [From the Complete Idiot's series...not that any Twinfatuation readers/participants can be described as such!]

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Monday, March 22, 2010

Retiring My Role as Referee

From their earliest days, my pacifistic nature has led me to intervene in the most twintense conflicts. Naturally, Sarah and Darren need to learn to resolve their disagreements on their own, but prolonged anger between the two is a challenge for me to simply "stand by."

This weekend, after a particularly volatile bout, Double Daddy and I postponed a much-desired viewing of The Princess and the Frog.

Later in the day, this wadded-up paper was discovered under the dining room table.

It reads:
"Dear Darren, 1st of all, I don't think this is a sorry note, it's not. 2 of all you have spoiled things to [sic]. 3rd of all this movie loss was not just me face it, we both were argueing [sic]. 4th of all you will keep your friends. I will keep my friends. Face it we both did something wrong so I don't feel a bit sorry for you."


Granted, that last line isn't exactly an olive branch extended; nor is the condition in which the document was found indicate an apology-accepting recipient, but by the time Scott and I came downstairs, the two were happily at play.

My polyester black and white striped polo may be gone for good.
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Sunday, March 21, 2010

Makes My Monday: Mind Games Mastered

26 teams representing the city's public elementary schools. 5-7 second & third graders per team. 2 months of practice. Two hours of practice each week before school. One hour of practice each week after school. Four events. One team wins it all.

One rightly ecstatic She-Twin.

The victory of the hard-working, uncomplaining, fully committed MindGames team---and their coaches---Makes My Monday.

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Saturday, March 20, 2010

Saturday Snapshots: Magic Man a.k.a. He-Twin Houdini

This morning, as Double Daddy, the twins and I were watching a mini-marathon of Breaking the Magician's Code: Magic's Biggest Secrets Finally Revealed from bed, Darren found inspiration.

First step learned: A body-covering curtain pre-disappearance is a must.
Poof! He vanishes!
[Ignore the scalp and shoulder blades visible the bed line; he's working out the kinks...]
Presto change-o, he reappears!
[And as you can readily decipher, he had nothing at all up his sleeve...]
A little magic in the morning adds to the warmth of this wonderful first weekend of Spring.

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Thursday, March 18, 2010

Misery Loves Company

As Sarah was preparing to swallow a dose of her least-favorite component of the recent quadripartite medicinal menu...

Sarah
(yelling from kitchen to the living room): "Hey Darren, wanna come watch me take my Zithromax?"

Darren: [Silence]

Sarah (more insistently): "DDDDA-A-A-A-R-R-R-RE-E-N! Don't you want to come see me take my medicine?"

Darren: [Silence]

Sarah (with finality): "Darren, if you don't come right now, you will miss it. You said you like to see me suffer, so I just thought I'd let you know that I'm about to."

Darren: (engrossed in Johnny Quest): [Silence]

Sarah: "Well, I tried to be a nice sister."
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Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Way Back When-esday: So Good You See

Dateline: March 17, 2007
Twins' Age: 5

Could there be a better day to put Sam-I-Am's offerings to the test? (Of course the green milk was my idea...) Remembering their boisterous descent to the dining room table followed by a clear struggle to stomach the emerald green eggs brings a smile to my St. Patrick's Day three years later.

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Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Green Day

From selecting game board tokens to Barbie’s evening gown, from first day of school garb to a post-ballet Slurpee, my childhood choices always possessed a distinct predictability. Still today, when it comes to my self-representational palette, I gravitate to green.

The common threads of occupation, alma mater, zodiacal sign, even twin parenthood generate less of a bond than when alerted to another’s passion for myrtle and avocado. Even our baby naming process was impacted by my predilection. If my babies’ daddy hadn’t exercised his veto privilege, Olive and Forest would reside in our nursery. (Okay, maybe that's a slight exaggeration...)

No other color’s name has been so cavalierly usurped to describe ideas outside its rainbow connection. Speedsters may race for pinks, and a company might find itself in the red; but when it comes to green, we need to get some ($), eat some (veggies), and in March, practice the wearin’ o’ some (Irish anyone?). In its less lovely incarnations, “being jaded” and “pea green with envy” seem almost appealing when observed through my moss-colored glasses.

Yes, Dorothy wore ruby slippers and followed a yellow brick road, but her epiphany occurred in Emerald City.

By virtue of a single color’s omnipresence therein, the growing movement to preserve our terra firma and her watery surrounds is known simply by the utterance of her name. Whether referring to the eco-conscious lifestyle or a love of lime, count this mama among those who never understood Kermit’s conundrum.

Wishing us all green peace,
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*This piece was originally composed for my dear friends--and fellow Richmonders---at PoshTots.com. Happy St. Patty's Eve to us, All!

Monday, March 15, 2010

Unsentimental Siskel & Ebert

During family movie night, watching "Fly Away Home" (wherein the lead character, played by a preteen Anna Paquin, doesn't remember details from her toddler days)...

Double Daddy: "When you guys are 12, do you think you will remember things from when you were three?"

Sarah (without hesitation): "Of course not!"

Darren (without reservation): "Why would we?"

Whew. Maybe all those parenting mistakes I was so confident would scar them for life will be of minimal impact after all...
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Makes My Monday: Vino's Loose Hold on Veritas

Sure, it was She-Twin's fortune cookie find; but truth revealed via unexpected sources always Makes My Monday.

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Saturday, March 13, 2010

Saturday Snapshot: Glimpse of Grandma

Here for a quick visit (with plenty of kisses bestowed---Sarah still has telltale lipstick marks on her cheek), we had a wonderful time with Grandma this morning.

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Thursday, March 11, 2010

Lashing Out...Literally

Don't be in a rush
Getting ready in the morn
Mistakes will happen

Early on Thursday
I was applying makeup
Should not have hurried

While curling lashes
Darren was brushing his teeth
I leaned over him

Should have thought a bit
Knowing he would raise his head
Alas, I did not

Sure enough, he spat
As I looked in the mirror
Now my right eye's odd

The inner corner
Has the lashes one expects
Outer lashes gone

Not really painful
The extraction was so fast
Wish it had been brows!

(Sparing you all a picture. Imagine an eye half lashed, and that's mine!)
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Wednesday, March 10, 2010

I Think You'll Understand

For the past several weeks, Sarah has been going into school an hour early, two days a week, for "Mind Games" practice...a city-wide academic competition. For Darren, her absence equals an hour of He-Twin only morning time at home---culminating in an unshared walk with Mommy into the classroom twice a week.

Strolling our way into second grade, holding my young son's hand...

Mommy
(well-aware of her son's soaring 95th-percentile on the height chart stature): "Darren, you know I love holding your hand walking into school like this. You're getting to be such a big boy. Whenever you feel like you are too big---or maybe a bit embarrassed---to have me hold your hand as we walk, you can let me know, and it'll be okay. Just know that I will always be holding your hand in my heart. Even when you are a grown man with grandkids of your own, you'll still always be my boy, and I'll still want to hold your hand."

Darren (matter-of-factly): "Mommy, you know you'll be dead by then."

Suppose Darren's grip on reality charms me as much as his hand held in mine.
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Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Way Back When-esday: Booster Banter

Dateline: April 2004
Twins' Age: 2

From the twins' backseat beginnings, our car-contained conversations have been amongst the most memorable---glad to have unearthed a visual from the Volvo wagon for this week's glimpse into days---and dialogues---gone by.

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Yaz, We Can

Out of left field, undoubtedly after one poorly placed commercial too many...

Sarah:
"So what is birth control?"

Mommy: "Well, it's a pill a woman takes when she and her husband aren't ready to have a baby yet."

So ended the Saturday night conversation; yet somehow, I knew the topic would resurface.

Flash forward to Sunday morning: Sarah was on my left in the pew, Darren on my right. Both were drawing on the obverse side of the attendance register pad pages. A glance downward to Sarah's lap revealed this...

Is it sarcasm? Is it satire? Is it silly?

It's something to save for her future amusement, that's for certain.
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Sunday, March 7, 2010

Makes My Monday: Bistro and Basketball

When the twins were infants, the idea of conversation-filled "Girls' Nights" and "Boys' Nights" seemed eons in the future. Now that Sarah and Darren are eight, the doubled evenings a deux are treasured...and provide wonderful glimpses into the grown-up kids they're becoming.

Over candlelight, She-Twin and I talked about the cultures and countries that fascinate her, and their varied levels of freedom...
Under Kleig lights, He-Twin and Dad shared camaraderie and courtside banter, assessing the varied success of free-throws.
Fun had by all Makes My Monday.

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